When meeting someone new the first thing you must do is work to communicate what you desire from a relationship. You can start by simply sharing and working to establish a bond - as you would with any other friend.
To attract the right one, you must close your eyes and envision what true love looks like to you. Imagine how it makes you feel. Think about what their character will be like. Think about how the two of you will spend your time and the conversations you will have.